“Jo Hota Hai, Achhe Ke Liye Hota Hai” – Ek Baat Jo Har Baar Sach Nahi Hoti

Kya Har Baar Positive Sochna Sahi Hota Hai?

Bachpan se ek line baar-baar sunne ko milti hai:

“Jo hota hai, achhe ke liye hota hai.”

Par jab zindagi baar-baar thappad maar rahi ho, ek ke baad ek setback mil raha ho, toh kya yeh line tab bhi valid hoti hai?

Sochiye —

Aap exam dene ja rahe hain. Ghar se nikalte hi galti se galat gali mein mud gaye. Woh route lamba tha, metro station tak pahunchne mein zyada time lag gaya. Aapko tab tak realise hota, aap kaafi aage nikal chuke the—so aapne decide kiya ki ab isi route se jaate hain.

Ab agar hum uss purani line ko yahaan apply karein — “Jo hota hai, acche ke liye hota hai,” —
toh iska matlab kya yeh hua ki agli baar bhi hum galti karein aur soch lein ki sab kuch bhagwaan ya luck ki marzi se ho raha hai?

Nahi.

Iska matlab yeh ho sakta hai ki har incident ek signal hai ki humein apne aage ke kadmon mein aur zyada alert rehna chahiye. Jaise:

• Metro station pahunchte hi sahi platform choose karein.
• App se double-check karein.
• Metro ke andar baith kar alert rahein — kahin station nikal na jaye jab aap book mein doobe ho.
• Waapas ghar lautte waqt sahi gate se exit karein, jisse time waste na ho.

Yeh positive soch tabhi meaningful hai jab uske saath conscious action aur self-awareness ho.

Varna, yeh sirf ek comfort line ban ke reh jaati hai — jo humein apni galtiyon se seekhne se rok sakti hai.

Sach yeh hai ki jo kuch bhi ho raha hai, usmein sirf luck nahi, balki aapki awareness, mindset aur decisions ka bhi bada role hota hai. Kai baar hum apne nazariye ko hi ultimate sach maan lete hain — aur saamne wale, chahe parents hi kyun na ho, unki baat hum samajhne ki koshish nahi karte.

Har baar yeh maan lena ki “mera mann ka nahi ho raha, toh shayad bhagwaan kuch aur chahte hain” — yeh soch thodi convenient hai.

Kya pata, agar hum apni soch ko hi refine kar lein, apne perspective ko broaden karein, toh ho sakta hai galat cheezein hona hi band ho jayein.

Aur tab jo kuch bhi hoga —

Woh sach mein acche ke liye hoga.

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Toh Phir Sahi Soch Kya Hai?

Sahi soch yeh hai:

✅ Jo bhi ho raha hai, usko samjho.

✅ Uske peeche ka pattern samjho.

✅ Risk aur outcome dono ko evaluate karo.

✅ Apne decision informed raho, bas motivated nahi.

✅ Jo bhi choose karo – usmein pichhle galtiyon se seekhna zaroori hai.

Tab agar kuch galat bhi hota hai, toh tumhaare paas clarity hoti hai.

Tum kahoge – “Jo hua, usne mujhe kuch valuable seekh diya.”

Yehi asli meaning hai – “Jo hota hai, achhe ke liye hota hai.”