“Socho tum ek office me ho, ya ek court me, ya ek hospital me… Tumhari life ka sabse bada opportunity aya hai. Tumne apne boss ya senior ke samne ek brilliant idea rakha… Aur unka face turant change ho gaya! Tumhe laga, ‘Arre waah, maine toh impress kar diya.’ Par reality kuch aur thi! Boss ya senior ka ego hurt ho gaya… Aur ab tumhara career danger me hai!”
Agar tumne kabhi socha hai ki sirf mehnat aur talent se safalta milti hai, toh ye video tumhari aankhein khol degi. Kyunki power aur politics bina samjhe, game jeet nahi sakte!”
Robert Greene kya kehte hain?
“Agar tum apne boss, senior ya kisi bhi power position wale insaan se zyada chamak rahe ho, toh tum apni kabar khud khod rahe ho!”
Yeh kaam kaise karta hai?
Boss ya seniors ek cheez se sabse zyada darte hain – Apni power kho dena! Agar tum unse zyada smart, zyada capable ya zyada popular lagne lage, toh wo subconsciously tumhe nuksaan pahunchayenge.
👀 Real-Life Examples (Jo Tumhari Zindagi Me Bhi Apply Hote Hain)
🔹 Students: Agar tumhara professor kisi topic me itna expert nahi hai, aur tumne class me ekdum perfect answer de diya, toh wo tumhe next time ignore karega ya underestimate karega.
🔹 Lawyers: Courtroom me ek junior lawyer ne apne senior ki baat ka counter kar diya. Judge toh impress ho gaya, par senior advocate ne uska career block kar diya.
🔹 Doctors: Agar ek junior doctor surgery me senior ko openly correct karega, toh senior uska confidence todne me koi kasar nahi chhodega.
🔹 Chartered Accountants: Agar ek CA firm me junior ne client ke samne senior se better answer diya, toh senior usko aage badhne hi nahi dega.
🔹 Business Owners & Entrepreneurs: Agar tumhare team members board meeting me tumse zyada smart dikhne lage, toh tum naturally insecure feel karoge.
Boss ki ego protect karo, unko hero banao!
Agar tum ek idea dena chahte ho, toh directly mat bolo –
👉 Instead of: “Sir, aapka idea sahi hai, par ek aur better tariqa hai.”
👉 Say this: “Sir, aapke ideas se inspired hoke maine ek chhota sa tweak socha hai, jo aapke vision ko aur powerful bana sakta hai.” Apni brightness control karo – Har jagah shine karna zaroori nahi hai!
Har jagah smart dikhna zaroori nahi, kabhi kabhi deliberately low-key raho.
Boss ke weaknesses expose mat karo – Even unknowingly!
Agar tum apne boss se kisi technical skill me better ho, toh unke samne usse show-off mat karo. Help karo bina unko insecure feel karwaye. Unko credit do, chahe tumne kaam kiya ho!
Smart people credit dete hain, dumb people credit ke liye ladte hain. Tumhara long-term goal sirf ek meeting me chamakna nahi, balki power structure me upar badhna hai!
✅ Agar tum student ho – Professors ki ego handle karni seekho.
✅ Agar tum lawyer ho – Seniors ke against courtroom me mat chamko.
✅ Agar tum doctor ho – Senior doctors ki knowledge ko publicly question mat karo.
✅ Agar tum CA ho – Client meetings me seniors ke saamne apni intelligence flash mat karo.
✅ Agar tum business owner ho – Apne employees ko apne against insecure mat karo.
“Smart log chamakne ki jagah sochne me time lagate hain.”