Freud kehte hain ki insaan ke andar anxiety yaani bechaini tab hoti hai jab uske andar kuch aise desires hote hain jo wo khul ke express nahi kar sakta.
Jaise ki sexual desires ya kisi aur tarah ki strong feelings. Jab inko express karna allowed nahi hota, toh anxiety banti hai.
Freud ne kai techniques batayi anxiety se deal karne ke liye, lekin sabse zabardast jo unhone batayi, uska naam hai — Sublimation.
Sublimation ka matlab hota hai: apni inner desires ko kisi creative kaam mein badal dena. Jaise:
Agar aapko baar-baar sexual thoughts aa rahe hain, toh un thoughts ko lekar aap painting banao, kavita likho, music compose karo, ya koi play likho jisme shringar ras ho.
Freud ke clinic mein ek painting lagi thi — ek chidiya dusri chidiya ke beak se touch kar rahi thi. Usmein bhi symbolism tha, lekin voh painting banakar, us desire ko art mein badal diya gaya tha.
Iska matlab yeh hai ki aap directly kisi taboo ya uncomfortable topic par baat na karte hue, usse indirectly express karo.
Result?
Bechaini kam ho jaayegi aur aapko ek socially acceptable outlet mil jaayega.
Freud kehte hain ki yeh sab techniques tabhi kaam karti hain jab aapka Ego strong ho.
Agar ego weak hoga, toh insaan ya toh paagalpan ki taraf jaayega, ya anxiety se hi toota rahega.
Super ego ka matlab hai samaj ke rules aur morals ko andar lena.
Is process ko kehte hain Introjection — jab hum social norms ko itna deeply accept kar lete hain ki voh hamare sochne ka tareeka ban jaata hai.
Jaise:
Ek simple line mein:
Apne dukh ko ek creative aur samaajik tarike se express karo.
Freud kehte hain:
Aise logon ka group banao jinke saath tum open ho sakte ho, baat kar sakte ho, hans sakte ho, masti kar sakte ho.
Kabhi kabhi dukh sirf baat karne se hi kam ho jaata hai. Yeh bhi ek emotional release hai.
Contradiction Alert!
Tulsidas ji kehte hain:
“Apna dukh kisi se mat kehna, Bhagwan ke paas jao.”
Freud kehte hain:
“Sahi doston ke paas jao, jahan tum safe feel karo aur apni energy nikaal sako.”
Ismein koi ek galat ya koi ek sahi nahin hai. Dono sahi hain, har person ya individual ka mental level alag hota hai, har koi spiritual nahin hota, tab Freud ki baat hi kaam mein lena sahi hai.
Aise doston ka group banao jahan:
Kabhi kabhi thoda jhagda bhi ho jaaye, toh tension bhi nikal jaati hai. Ek tareeka hota hai apne andar ki energy release karne ka.
Projection ka matlab hota hai apne andar ke thoughts ko dusron pe thopna.
Jaise:
Koi tumhari madad kar raha hai, aur tum sochne lag jao — “Iska hidden agenda kya hai? Ye mere saath flirt toh nahi kar raha?”
Ye thought process galat jagah le ja sakta hai.
Projection anxiety ko temporarily kam karta hai, lekin long term mein trust issues aur aur zyada bechaini laata hai.
Technique | Matlab | Kaam Kyun Karti Hai |
---|---|---|
Sublimation | Desire ko art mein badalna | Emotion nikal jaata hai respectfully |
Introjection | Samaj ke norms ko accept karna | Direction milta hai life mein |
Sharing with Friends | Real emotions share karna | Vent ho jaata hai, light feel hota hai |
Strong Ego | Apne aap pe control rakhna | Break down se bach jaate ho |
Sexual ya emotional energy ko chhupane ki zarurat nahi hai. Usko ek constructive outlet do — art, writing, acting, ya friendship ke zariye.
Bohot Simple Hai:
Bechaini ko dabaane ke bajaye, usko creative aur social tareeke se nikaalo.
“Mujhe khana chahiye, abhi!”
“Mujhe sex chahiye, abhi!”
“Mujhe chill karna hai, kaam se mat roko!”
Example: Jab tum burger dekhte hi paagal ho jaate ho aur diet bhool jaate ho — that’s ID talking!
“Aisa mat kar, log kya kahenge?”
“Yeh galat hai, sharam karo!”
“Tumhe self-control rakhna chahiye.”
Example: Jab tumhara mann burger khane ka ho lekin tum kehte ho:
“Nahi, dieting kar raha hoon”
Toh Super Ego active hai.
“Abhi burger nahi, raat ko cheat meal le lenge.”
“Kaam pe focus karte hain, baad mein chill karenge.”
Ego ka kaam hai:
Agar Ego strong hoga → Zindagi balance mein chalegi.
Agar Ego weak hoga → Ya to tum ID ke slave ban jaoge, ya Super Ego ke guilt mein dub jaoge.
Anxiety tab hoti hai jab:
Tab Ego ke paas do option hote hain:
Tumhara mann baar-baar sexual fantasy mein jaa raha hai (ID bol raha hai)
Par tumhara andar ka sanskari Judge (Super Ego) keh raha hai:
“Haww! Yeh toh ganda soch rahe ho!”
Aur Ego tension mein aa gaya = Anxiety
Ego sochta hai — “Chalo main uss desire ko kavita mein likh deta hoon, ya koi painting bana leta hoon.”
Yeh hua Sublimation.
Ya Ego sochta hai — “Main un doston ke saath baat karunga jo mujhe judge nahi karte.”
Yeh hua Healthy Emotional Sharing + Introjection
ID: Mujhe chahiye abhi
Super Ego: Tu badtameez hai
Ego: Don’t fight… chalo kuch creative sochte hain!