FREUD VS JUNG – Complex

Freud bhaiya bolte the har insaan ke andar hota hai Oedipus Complex – jisme ladka apni maa ke liye feelings rakhta hai aur papa ko dushman maanta hai.

Lekin Jung aur Adler ne bola:

“Arey bhai, ye har culture mein thodi hota hai!”

Jung ne bola: har insaan ke andar hoti hai conscious aur unconscious mind ki fight.

Aur jab ye dono takraate hain, tab banta hai ek complex – ek aisi chhupi energy jo hume control karne lagti hai.

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Mind ka Power Game

Unconscious mind bolta hai: “Main chalaunga show!”

Ego bolta hai: “Nahi bhai, society ke rules bhi follow karne hain.”

Yahi clash se banta hai tension, aur wahi tension complex ban jaata hai.

Jung bolte hain – jaise bijli har jagah hoti hai, waise hi complex bhi har kisi mein hota hai. Samjhne ka tareeka chahiye.

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🎭 Persona – Har Role ke Liye Alag Chehra

Jung ne bola: “Insaan apni life mein mask pehenta hai.”

Matlab har role ke liye ek alag face.

Jaise:

• Maa – Baap ke saamne: Seedha saadha bachcha
• Dost ke saamne: Bindass funny banda
• Office mein: Serious aur professional
• Girlfriend ke saamne: Sweet aur charming

Har situation mein hum persona change karte hain. Agar koi banda ye change nahi kar paata, to log bolte hain – “ye to ajeeb hai bhai!”

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Real-Life Example: Natak Ki Lady

Ek lady ek play mein Kaikeyi ka role karti hai – serious, gusse waali.

Agle scene mein ban jaati hai Shurpanakha – funny aur evil.

Same aadmi ko har roop mein alag tareeke se dekhna padta hai.

Waise hi hum life mein bhi har role mein fit hone ke liye apna persona switch karte hain.

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Ego – Mind ka Traffic Police

Ego ka kaam hai unconscious se aaye ideas ko reality ke traffic signal pe rokna ya pass karna.

Agar ego strong hai, to banda samajh ke har cheez ka response deta hai.

Agar ego weak hai, to banda confuse ho jaata hai – kahin ka nahi rehta.

Strong ego hone ka matlab hai – tum samajh pa rahe ho ki kab kaunsa role play karna hai.

Agar ego toot gaya, to banda identity loss, depression, ya breakdown ke zone mein chala jaata hai.

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🎯 Final Gyaan – Bohot Simple Style:

1. Har insaan ke andar chhupi desires hoti hain. Sabko mat dikhana.
2. Har jagah ek hi chehra leke mat ghoomna – har role ka alag chehra rakho.
3. Ego ko strong rakho – taaki tum decide karo ki tumhara next move kya hoga, complex nahi.

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Agar yeh samajh aa gaya…

To complex simple ho gaya! 😄

Bohot simple hai.